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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Another point. I made it a big priority that we are polite to each other, my husband and I. We have a very, very cordial relationship that I think really flourished when I stopped taking things so seriously and caring so much. I care that he speaks to me politely and if he was a jerk I would point out that if he couldn't talk to a coworker this way, why is it okay for him to speak that way to me. I also walked the walk. I became much, much more pleasant around my husband. I make my points that need to be made and keep it moving. If it's not worth raising, I don't stew over it or -- even unintentionally -- internalize it. I just let the things that don't matter, which is surprisingly a lot, go.[/quote] Let's say your husband doesn't call you or spend time with you, but expects sex. How do you not be annoyed that he doesn't facilitate an emotional connection but expects a physical one?[/quote]
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