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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]BEST FUCKING THREAD IN THE HISTORY OF DCUM! *TAKING NOTES! KEEP IT COMING [/quote]

It is so bizarre that the apathy in a relationship has so many prople excited. That becoming  numb and detached is such a great thing for everyone. Im so grateful that i still have passion and a great wide ocean of buried feelings don't separate DH and i.

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Here's the thing you can have both.  It depends on what is going on at the time.  The apathy part occurs after one spouse is upset about minor, every day stuff.  Just let it go.  Who cares if he/she is irritated about X, it doesn't matter in the long run.  Go to bed, move on.  The quicker you both move past the little shit, the quicker the passion or happiness returns.

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Once I became apathetic about small stuff, I have found that we still have plenty of sex, because I don't attach an emotional state to (every day) sex.   Sex makes me feel good, so I'm open to having sex, even if it's not emotional or a long drawn out session. [/quote]

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