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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Its so weird to me that all these posters consider those of us who give our kids electronics and let them have it in their rooms are doing it because we have no backbone, no ability to say no, we are "giving in"...like we really, really want to say no deep inside, but we say yes anyway.

personally I have 3 teenagers, all of whom have every electronic under the sun.  Early on in their iPhone texting days, they were stupid and stayed up late texting and they were exhausted at school the next day, and at sports practice that night.  They learned pretty darn fast.

I don't care what electronics they have as long as they follow the basic rules we outline about them in our house.  I don't care whether they are in their rooms at night.  (Geez I mean when I was a teenager we spent all our time in our rooms, too...on our land lines, talking on party lines and 3-way calls. Its hardly like we were hanging with the 'rents playing monopoly in the family room as teenagers. They are teenagers...they don't want to hang with us. And I don't care...as long as they come to dinner, come out on family trips and vacations, do well at school, stay active physically, and are healthy and happy.  They are growing independent people...and I have zero desire to micro-manage them![/quote]

+1. I see no need to step in and make rules unless my kids show that they cannot handle their own responsibilities. DD13 can have her phone with her and use it whenever she wants as long as her use of it does not start interfering with her other obligations. This is my approach to almost everything, not just electronics or bedtimes. I'm raising future adults and I want them to have as much practice as they are able to handle with making and owning their own decisions while I am still able to provide a safety net in case one of their choices is actually bad enough to need someone else to step in. [/quote]

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