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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]ok OP, so you have a low drive.  no biggie.  but some of us have a high drive and also have a spouse with a high drive. is it always 4th of July fireworks every time we have sex, no.  but I'm lucky my DH is a great lover and takes care of my needs first.  so that is just one of many reasons I want to have sex multiple times a week with him - and he's a pretty happy guy.

and we have 3 kids (teens/pre-teens) and both work full-time.[/quote]

High drive high drive marriage here. My spouse is a great lover. [b]However, doesn't much matter. Having sex with the same person 3xs a week is a complete bore [/b]

I love scallops. I don't want to eat scallops for dinner every single night, for the next 20 years, no matter how incredible the diversity of the preparation. I'm sure others would be happy with scallops forever and ever.[/quote]

THIS!!!! Human beings just want new and strange. That's how it is. We (mostly) take it personally but maybe we shouldn't.[/quote]

No thanks. The vast majority of the guys my age I see out there? No, just no.
I like the hubs. I want to keep the hubs so I put in the effort. He's good at it, no frills just some fun.
It's good enough.
It seems as if some people are using sex as a power struggle - if you aren't giving me this, I'm not giving you this.
Sounds like an awful way to live. I'd make sure to stay tuned if for a manipulative personality before I tied the knot.[/quote]

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