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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I described the lack of sexual drive as a mutation.

Humans are not the only animal that has sex for pleasure but sure its rare. I was responding directly to a poster that claimed men's desire for sex and women's desire for children was socialized into us and not a biological function of our gender. The nuances of marriage are more complicated than that yes but desire for sex and procreation is not a social phenomenon, it's a biological one.[/quote]

Desire for sex 3 times a week is socialization. Expectation for sex on the 1st date, 3rd date... Whatever date is a product of socialization of what is masculine. Desire for a woman yo "like it more" is socialization of masculinity.

Here is another weird masculine socialization.

We tell teens/young adults that mastrabation is a normal healthy exploration of your own body. But men are socialized to believe that mastrabation after marriage is a failure to "get it from your wife" and women are socialized to believe they need to "give it to their husbands" instead of enjoying it alone. Men make women feel like they "cheated" if they mastrabate once a week and have sex with their H once a week. The H want that 2nd time too, as if the woman is not allowed to enjoy herself without her H anymore.

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