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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you deserve some side piece OP. I've stayed faithful in my sexless marriage but the next guy who looks at me I'm getting some. [/quote]

Several posters have mentioned this, replying to all at once. Yup, I agree, there is no way I sign up for sexless life without a fight, I am too young. Our last child will be 2 yo in the coming weeks, this is it, no more "too exhausted to function excuse", options:

1- it is a medical issue, we work hard on finding the cause and curing it
2 - it is just a serious bad dynamic, miscommunication issue and with therapist, hard work and tricks (scheduled sex, better understanding of each other's fantasies, games, porn, role play whatever ..) we can get back on track
3- there is deep down a serious blockage that cannot be solved and is not linked to his overall libido but his sexual desire for me and me only (ie. He could have sex with someone else). I am afraid that will lead to divorce after a year or 2 of exhausting all the therapeutic work available. I can co-parent with him as a friend, he doesn't need to have the "husband" title
4- there is deep down a serious blockage that cannot be solved, either physical or mental that prevents him from having any libido (ie it is not me, he wouldn't be able to have sex with anybody). I ask for a hall pass and we see if we can live happily like that (I have serious doubts but willing to try to save my marriage as I love him)

The option that is not an option : I can't deal at 35 to stay faithfully married to someone who has no desire for me. We have only one short life on this planet...

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