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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A teenager is not responsible for figuring out that his father is a bat shit crazy and tell his mom. Those that say shame on the teen are clueless.

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Bingo!

Something has been wrong in this family for a long time, and I'm going out on a limb here, but [b]I'm willing to bet it's not all   the husband's fault.[/b]
A teenage boy wouldn't just go along with this for no reason at all.

I'm sorry OP is hurting, but she needs to stop the whoa to me navel gazing and playing the victim. [b]She's got bigger issues than an affair, and possible divorce to work on.[/b]
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And I'm willing to bet it (mostly) is.  What is wrong with the family is that the H is an emotionally abusive bully.  He is totally gaslighting her on this.  And teaching his son how a "real man" treats women.  My ex-SIL is in the same situation.  I dumped the asshole (her brother) and she stays with hers for faith and not wanting to split up the family reasons and worries about the messages her teenage son receives.  Everybody in the family cringes because the son now talks to her just like the dad.  She's the only person in my ex's family I stay in touch with because heaven knows her family would never help her.  Divorce is ungodly to them.  (Yes, I am super popular with them for dumping my ex and I just don't care.)[/quote]

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