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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds to me as if your husband is switching blame from himself unto you.

That it is YOUR fault and yours alone that you cannot properly cope w/all the fallout over HIS indiscretion.
That you should just snap out of it by simply being "happy!!"

Easy peasy.

He either doesn't realize your depth of hurt or is in complete denial over it.

Either way, it seems he just wants to simply move on & away from his complete betrayal.

Ha!!
Unfortunately, life does not operate in such a manner.
There are usually consequences to be faced when making bad decisions in life.
It's called being held accountable.

Sounds like your husband wants a free pass.
Sorry, but it's not that simple Buddy.

I think you both should go to a licensed marriage therapist + learn some new communication skills.

However counseling cannot change a bad personality like your husbands so you may have to re-consider if living this way is worth it in the long run.

So sorry OP.
What you need now from him is support, not condescension. :([/quote]

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