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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Update:

It has now been almost a year since we have spoken. I have seen her probably 3 times all year and because I basically forced myself on her. I have no idea what she is up to and how she is. I know she has financial problems but she refuses to tell me or recieve my assistance. Instead she is relying on her friends and boyfriend to pay her bills. Every time I meet her she heaps on piles of abuse. She tells me that I am batshit crazy and that I have driven her into insanity too. She at the same time wants me to meet her boyfriends family. This makes no sense to me. She cannot abuse me and then bring me around her boyfriend's family as a show pony. Worst part, no one in our family knows about him and his family. They also think I am crazy.

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Wait, you'e not seen her all year, or you've seen her three times this year?

I've not piled too much on you in the past,but I also agree -let her go live her life.  Maybe she will come back to you.  [/quote]

Ive seen her at my insistence for 3 times from 30 minutes to 1 hour. Meanwhile she removed herself from our joint cellphone plan and removed my name from our car insurance. She didn't even consult me or tell me. She says he wants to never see me or hear from me again because she says I have been a terrible sister and emotionally abusive to her. She also says she cannot deal with my crazy ideas and she will deal with her parents on her own terms when the time comes. 
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It's getting really hard to resist calling troll on this. Your sister is showing you in every possible way that she wants nothing to do with you and you keep forcing yourself on her, then claiming you can't see how you are being abusive? Leave the woman alone! If you were anyone but a sibling you'd have had a restraining order taken out against you AGES ago. Holy lord.[/quote]

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