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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What about your marriage makes you describe it as good? [/quote]

She works, so she's bringing in money. She cooks and cleans. She grocery shops. She cares for the kids. Etc.

So, it's sort of like having an Alice or living with your mom. [/quote]

If this was OP, there's your answer. She's got too much to do, you don't do enough, plus you're not that great in bed, I bet. Keep finding excuses to blame her and make her feel bad, though. Always a recipe for success in relationships.[/quote]

Hi, OP here.  That was not me.  What makes my marriage good is everything except sex.  We get along well outside of this issue, I love her, I am actively engaged in our life etc.  If we had sex I would say I am very happily married.  But I read a quote in some article on the subject that says sex is 5% of a marriage when you are having it and 95% when you are not.  That is how I feel now.  I am happy with our marriage but this issue is painful enough that it is eroding all of the things I am happy with.  I am not blaming her, it is what it is at this point. I am just looking for ways to try to live through it.[/quote]

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