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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe she likes sex on vacation because, like so many women, she feels the burden of everyday responsibilities are heavy and exhausting, so her sexual side is pushed to the backburner. Do you do enough in the partnership and household, OP? You probably think you do, but you could go the extra mile. And don't make it about bartering. That makes women feel pressured and like prostititutes.

And if she doesn't want to do things sexually that don't feel good to her, who can blame her? You're a million times easier to please than she is. I get a sense that she feels sex is just one more demand on her, one more way to feel inadequate, and that you make it too much about you and you don't make it worth her while. You shouldn't have to guess whether she enjoys it.

If sexual enjoyment was limited for you, and you had no satisfaction or enjoyment from 99 percent of the activities your partner wanted to inflict on you, and then they begrudged you the one way you could get off, and you were exhausted and overextended on top of it, yet they made you feel like a failure and bad partner, yeah, you'd cry too.[/quote]

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