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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whenever it feels like the right time.  I have two young children and a husband who loves them more than anything, I know he would make the right choice in a partner so whatever helps expedite the healing process and they are all comfortable with is fine.  Some arbitrary time line seems pointless.[/quote]

But you have people who have lost their mothers telling you over and over that it does not matter that your husband currently loves your children more than anything.

If he remarries quickly after the death, odds are 50/50 or even 60/40 that he will dump your children the minute a new woman comes into the picture, regardless of what kind of father he is now and what kind of relationship the two of you have.

Ask around of people who have lost their mothers whose fathers were good and loving before the loss.

You will be shocked at how common it is for widowed men to try to completely erase their first families.

It happens more often than not.

I would not have believed this until it happened to my family, but it did. And the more I talked to others I realized it is a very common reaction by men.

Stay healthy. Outlive your husband. Tuat is the best way to ensure your kids will always have a family to love them.[/quote]

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