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Reply to "If you are married or in a long-term partnership and you die"
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[quote=Anonymous]So I didn't get through all pages, but wanted to add that I know young adult children who lost a parent (more typically the mother) and even if 1-3 years passes after death before remaining spouse, I.e husband,dates those children get de-prioritized. It can be really hard for the family. Things like not seeing remaining parent, remaining parent starting new life with gf/bf, more priority given to gf/bf for holidays, events, the new gf/bf's grandchildren etc. I had a friend whose father only displayed pictures of the new wife's children ( not his bio child, her child from previous marriage) and none of his bio children. This can be tough for children because not only did they physically lose a parent due to death they effectively lost a parent due to the relationship. This does not always happen and it is not always the new gf/Bf's doing. Not to get reamed for stereotyping but it seems more prevalent with men moving on.[/quote]
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