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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if the only issue in your marriage is sex. I hate sex. I used to love it but after 20 years with same person I just don't. And I have no desire to have sex with anyone else either. I'm almost 50 and the thought of sex just doesn't appeal to me anymore. But we have two small kids (had them later in marriage) and I don't want to put them through divorce. How do you explain to kids (and everyone) that your divorcing because of sex? I would give him a pass to see others but he doesn't want that. I've tried to fake it and I'm just miserable. Everyday I'm miserable dreading sex. [/quote]

What an incredibly sad admission, but thanks for your honesty. 
Even sadder: this is probably how a large number of DCUM women actually think, they just aren't as honest about it.

Divorce him. You shouldn't have sex if you don't want to. And he deserves sex with somebody who desires him.[/quote]

Go and see your doctor or a bioidentical naturopath about hormone replacement therapy to help with that.
HRT isn't right for everyone but a low dose of hormones might make a huge difference.[/quote]

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