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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One day in the future when we are all subjected to key loggers, GPS trackers and covert recordings of internet search histories, we will get over the fact that most people, at some point in their long marriages, have done something that would deeply hurt their partner if it was uncovered.

Put me in the willfully blind camp.  If I were OP, I would evaluate the marriage, see if its something that is a net positive or negative and if its a positive, address the issue upfront and see if you can get back to your net-positive marriage.  Sometimes, it seems better to be happy than to be right.

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OP here. I do agree with this. That's why I was contemplating saying something last night BUT if I do that then I'll always wonder if he would have done something more and I don't think I will ever 100% trust him. My hope is that I'll monitor things for a month or so and find nothing in which case I think I'll be better able to move on. I just feel so stupid for thinking he would never ever consider cheating on me. My brain tells me I'm better off discussing this now and working on our marriage rather than waiting for him to do something worse but I really don't think I can move on even with the help of therapy without knowing more.[/quote]

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