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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a guy, this doesn't sound odd at all to me.[/quote]

Here you go, OP. Proof you should worry.

You are hiding your head in the sand. If they have not had an intimate relationship (love that term), they are driving down that road. He described her as "hot". Please. Pull your head along with your dignity up out of the sand and confront him. What he's doing is NOT normal for someone in a healthy relationship. We all have friends, even minor flirtations, but texting for hours, three-hour phone calls, saying goodnight to each other via text, eating lunch together every day -- these are red flags!! Danger, danger!!

Confront him. Tell him you saw the texts on his phone. Get yourself checked for STDs, OP. His relationship with her is not "just a friend."

What does she get out of it? She's older, flattered that a young guy finds her attractive. She knows he thinks she's fit, hot, sexy. She probably thinks she can take up with him when he comes to his senses and dumps you. He's clearly more interested in her than he is in you.

Also, what she's doing is a form of sexual harassment. She's setting herself up for a lawsuit, if things don't work out so well with your boyfriend. He can sue her. She's abusing her position. Remember that, OP. This woman is taking a BIG risk. She has the hots for your boyfriend.

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Thanks for the advice. I think head in sand is issue. Not an HR issue though. She isn't in his chain of bosses and in completely different aspect of the company. They are basically peers but she has been there longer and in higher position.[/quote]

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