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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Growing up in the Midwest my wife called here parents Amma and Papa. She wants our son to call them that too. I've never heard anyone call a grandfather Papa. I think southerners or people in rural areas may use some variant but not straight Papa. [b]To me it's no different than calling him Dad. It seems incredibly inappropriate and even implies something incestuous between him and his daughter.[/b] She doesn't see it. I think that the fact that she called them these things is evidence enough that they are names for parents but she doesn't see it. What's the best way to handle this? We are all together for the week and I feel done after only 24 hours.[/quote]

As the survivor of father-daughter sexual abuse, I am really, really curious how you get from "Let's have Larlo call my dad Papa" to "Grandpa's touching me."

Your post actually states that Papa = Dad = Incest. Please explain that to me, because while that was true in my house, I honestly didn't think it applied everywhere.[/quote]

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