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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You will not be any more tied to him with two then you are with one. [/quote]

Except: twice the kid expenses/ child support and twice the kid issues to negotiate post divorce (because siblings do not have identical issues).  But very importantly, much harder to leave, because, again twice the kid expenses. Especially while they are in childcare, that will pretty much eat up all of mom's salary, unless she is in a highly paid profession. Which is hard to maintain as a single parent with the dad in a different country.  So yes, a second kid could turn difficult to leave into impossible to leave.

I wouldn't suggest abortion lightly either (not PP). But I also don't advocate someone creating a situation where they are trapped overseas married to a serial cheater, alcoholic, and God knowns what else and bringing more kids into that mess. [/quote]

I agree with all of this.  OP, if you are open to having an abortion, I'd seriously consider it.  I am so sorry you are facing this.   Big hugs.[/quote]

+1. I'm really sorry, OP.[/quote]

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