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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. He's not even coming clean in his coming clean. First he told me he'd been doing this for a year - today he said, no, only three months, but he'd thought about it for a year. Originally told me he found these women via Facebook. Today told me, okay, it was Tinder (!) but he'd originally opened an account "just to see how it worked."

We're out of the country on vacation. (Worst vacation ever, by the way.) I want to go back and get the ball rolling on something. He can't even be honest about how he fucked up. Ugh. [/quote]

He's a liar. I think some guys get caught, feel genuinely terrible and confess everything right there. Then they beg their wife to forgive them and do whatever she wants to fix things.

Other guys get caught, try to figure out how much you know and only admit to that. Or they only admit to as much as they think you'll tolerate without leaving. I think these guys have lying in their bones. They're just cowards, truly afraid of admitting to you and to themselves what they've done and taking the punishment. [/quote]

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