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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What in the world is OP going to do when that toddler becomes a grubby elementary school kid tracking germs and mud into the house, leaving cupboards open, etc...put him up for adoption?[/quote]

There's a big difference between a toddler behaving like a toddler and a husband behaving like a toddler![/quote]

Definitely!

The husband is the one supporting you.[/quote]

This is a twisted attempt at logic.

I have a piggish DH similar to OPs. he literally stopped picking up after himself once we moved from an apartment to a house, then had kids.
It is clear from his daily Droppings that he thinks little of his house or property or me or the live-out nanny. In fact his total lack of respect, appreciation and even acknowledgment of what it takes to run a family household is THE reason I don't SAHM. Yes, it would be better for the kids, but DH views it as better and smoother for him. Then he can do even less house or kid stuff, and continue to be a pig.

The ONLY way SAHM works is if the other spouse respects the role. OP's husband does not.
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