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It's obviously a good idea to help with housework, but don't do it because you think it will solve your sex issues, or you will be disappointed. I also have a sexless marriage. First it was because she was stressed being a newlywed, then she was stressed because she was unemployed, then she thought I didn't do enogh housework, then she thought I was out of shape, then we had our first kid, then she thought she was out of shape, then we had our second kid, then she thought she was out of shape again, then she thought it was because we didn't have enough date nights. We addressed every one of these issues and nothing changed. We're in shape now, we have jobs, we split housework, we have regular date nights. . . that might all be good for our marriage in other ways but didn't change anything at all about sex.[/quote]

:lol:  :lol:  :lol: ....sorry, not laughing at you, just laughing at all her excuses.

Sorry, dude. As you know, the excuses are bullshit. She just doesn't want to have sex with you anymore.

I'm sorry.[/quote]

That's not fair, she said she loves him.  Personally I don't think she wants to share the real reason. I know myself I am not attracted to guys over 45. Most look too old no matter how well they've taken care of themselves, it's the age factor and as you age attraction can go out the window for sex.  That's one theory, which I've heard from other women. Men too.

Another, she was never excited about sex to begin with. It's a chore to many people and sucks if's its another obligation at the end of the day.  I suspect his wife values other things in the marriage, sex being on the low priority. Unfortunately the DH has placed it too high especially since the rest of the marriage seems to be going well.

I had a good friend that divorced her husband for many reasons but sex was one of them.  She confided in me they hadn't had sex in years.  I was shocked and thought they had a great marriage.  His grown kids were probably the biggest problem.  After she divorced him she got with this guy that expected sex 3 times a week, lol.  She ended up dumping him, and tried to get her ex back.  All of us told her not to divorce him as she had it made, she finally realized we were right.[/quote]

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