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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It certainly depends per person. I think the average Joe shmoe would only care about if the girl is hot,nice and wants to have sex. It doesn't matter if she is a hooters waitress or wmata driver.

Men from upper middle class and above date their peers. Girls who have gone to private/prep school and then a top liberal arts school or an IVY. Usually these girls are very ambitious too. They will go on to apply to law schools/med schools/ grad schools. The least ambitious ones will get a masters in teacher education or international development. They will then graduate and work in prestigious but low paying jobs. The high achievers will be top lawyers/doctors etc.

Its pretty rare for a truly well-bred UMC/UC guy to marry very down. He may marry a girl who is"writing a novel" and living off her parents funds and then because a SAHM. But they won't date a hooters waitress.[/quote]

I am upper middle class. The reason we marry these women is because these women aggressively seek us out, so that's who we end up with.

I have literally never in my entire life had a male friend say to me "She's hot, nice, and the sex is great, BUT: she didn't go to a good school/doesn't have a prestigious job/is not high achieving. [/quote]

I agree with this. It is well known that men want to be admired and revered and women want to be with men who inspire them and whom they admire.

In a UMC/UC Guy + LMC/LLC Woman relationship, the guy is the highly admired by the woman. These women treat their men really really well because they know he is her meal ticket. They are charming, docile and attend to their every whim. I have seen LC women who snag an UMC guy, literally change their whole schedule to be with the man. Just look at Kate Middleton, she wanted William so badly she waited for him for 10 years and stood by him through 3 humiliating public break ups. Do you think another princess would have put up with him? No.

Every LC girl I know who married up has this resilient quality. The man is their ONLY focus and they move mountains to attend to his every need and keep him happy. And they're happy to do it because they genuinely are awed by his power and wealth and deeply admire him.

In an "equal" marriage the woman are more spoiled and have more demands. They see therough the B.S and do not put up with any flaws. They hold their men to a higher standard of treatment and accomplishment.

My LC friend who married her UMC husband who is very wealthy is like this. He hardly takes her on dates or buys her gifts. One time he got her flowers and she was over the moon and gushing about them. My dh isn't as rich and we both work but he is wonderful. He brings me flowers from the grocery every weekend and I often bitch about how I wish he got mine from a florist instead. haha. Its funny really.[/quote]

While I appreciate you agreeing with me, just to be clear, I'm not intentionally avoiding successful women to find women I don't think can keep up with me intellectually. I just don't particularly care whether my partner has a successful career or not, in either direction.[/quote]

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