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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In no particular order:  kids, stress, overwork, money worries, sleep deprivation, unhealthy lifestyle/bad diet/lack of exercise, too much alcohol (to relax after a stressful day), various medications that affect libido....i.e. the modern age is full of these things that interfere with intimacy.

If you had into all of these things existing relationship problems then it can be difficult to prioritize sex.[/quote]

The ladies of DCUM are always talking about "red flags" in potential male husbands. So as a single 33 year old guy, what are the red flags that I should be looking for that would cause a woman to de-prioritize sex in a long term relationship? How can I make sure she doesn't fall prey to all this stuff above and continues to reflect what she advertised during the dating phase?[/quote]

Dude you are so pathetic cruising DCUM with your mysoginistic fears about women not "reflecting what she advertised during the dating phase."  You're 33, not 18! Women don't "fall prey" to kids, stress, overwork, money worries, sleep deprivation ... that's called being a working mother.  The point of a marriage is to support each other, not to demand that your partner stay exactly the same as they were when they were young and had no responsibilities.  I hope at the least that you don't have kids if you get married (but probably you should not get married at all). [/quote]

You make it sound like sex a couple times per week is simply impossible. You are exactly the type of wife the PP wants to avoid.

PP, obviously the dating period is when you must ensure sexual compatibility, both by actually having good/frequent sex, and by discussing how your prospective views sex. Have serious talks about the role of sex in marriage, just as you would finances, kids, or any other significant issue. You are ahead of the game by researching on DCUM the kinds of sexual issues that come up. Talk about all of this before buying that ring.[/quote]

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