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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am not clear on why PPs think women are so desperate for men to buy them dinner tbh. If all they wanted was dinner, why would they not just go to the restaurant and buy the dinner? Why do you need a man for that part? [/quote]

+1. I'd rather pay for and enjoy a dinner alone than have it paid for by a man whose company I don't enjoy. [/quote]

So your default is still getting some man to pay for your dinner, but you enjoy it more if you also like the man's company.  How nice for you.[/quote]

Huh? Reading comprehension is not your strong suit. If a man asks me out and I didn't otherwise suggest the date, and he suggests the dinner, then yes he pays for it. If I don't enjoy his company then I won't go out with him again even if he wants to buy me a hundred more dinners. I can and will buy my own in that case. [/quote]

LOL I can read fine sweetie.  Your expectation is in exchange for the privilege of going out on a date with you, the man buys you a dinner.  Pretty old fashioned.   How many times have you had a date and paid for the man (regardless of who asked who out on the date) vs. how many times you have dated and the man has paid for you?   I'd be surprised if you ever bought dinner for a man even once on a date.  I'm not talking about going dutch--I'm talking about where you pay for BOTH of you.    I'll bet that's happened exactly zero times.  Prove me wrong sweetie pie.[/quote]

No, actually you CAN'T read. We don't have to go to dinner. We can go for a coffee or hang out at the bookstore or whatever. But if he's asking then why the hell would I pay for dinner? Are you off your rocker? No wonder you're so bitter, your lack of social know how is showing.  No wonder you can't get laid and hate women. Sweetie. [/quote]

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