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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you do it? I mean - do literally? Do you put your child over your knee and hit them? Do you hit them where they are standing? What are the logistics of spanking? I was spanked as a child (once) and I never forgot it. I'm wondering if it works the same for all parents.[/quote] For us, we don't do it out of anger or in the moment, which I think could be confusing. So one of us will sit down with the child and briefly go over the behavior that has earned the spanking. Then put him or her over our knee and give three or four spanks on the bare tush. There's crying, of course, but it's not an out of control angry event. [/quote] This description actually makes me feel sick to my stomach. [/quote] Me too. It is one thing for a parent to be at their wits end and give a kid a swat in the moment if they've really crossed the line...but this weird, ritualized routine in which the parent is totally calm is just so...gross.[/quote] It is certainly not better to be giving any punishments simply as a reaction to your own anger. What PP has described is the correct way.[/quote]
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