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[quote=Anonymous][quote=annalee007]Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that with the second it was a C-section after 36 hours of labor. I also breastfed both children. So I'm done with doing things to my body. Come on, he can do a minor operation - it is not considered "major" operation medically. The problem with withholding sex is that I am also withholding it from myself, haha. I guess one has to do what it takes for the greater good!

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Since a woman obviously has 100% autonomy over her own reproductive decisions, everything that you described as happening to your body in the process of conceiving, giving birth, nursing, etc., is 100% on you.  You chose not to use proper birth control.  You chose not to have an abortion when you got pregnant.  Not your husband.  Your husband doesn't have the legal right to make those decisions for you.  Only you do.  You made them, live with them, and stop trying to shift responsibility for your decisions upon your spouse, who has no control over them.[/quote]

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