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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm #teamop on this one.

Just because you will have to make changes in your life is not good enough reason to accept infidelity in matrimony.

If you agree to remain in a marriage where your spouse has broken a very important promise & bond that were the true foundations of your marriage, then what is left that is still sacred??!

Nothing. At. All.

If you turn the other cheek + remain w/your spouse after they commit life's most betraying transgression than you automatically are settling for a life that is much less than you deserve to lead. And your spouse will never ever respect you as a person even though they claim they will. They will never see you w/the same eyes they once did. Your dignity will be completely non-existent.
As long as you stay.

I know divorce is HUGE.
It co$ts a ton, both financially as well as personally.
Standards of living go down and children may have to go back & forth regarding where they will live.

But understand this:
If you remain married to someone + continue living under one roof, you will only be settling and though no one falls out of love overnight, in time your feelings towards your spouse will erode as the years pass.

As a parent, it is our responsibility to keep things 100% authentic for our children.
To teach them by example to possess self-worth for themselves.

The best way to teach them this very necessary trait is by leading by example.

And taking a lying, cheating spouse back will send a very harmful + destructive message to them.

Because when they become adults they will continue the vicious cycle.[/quote]

Have you been through a divorce with kids involved? If you haven't, you really have no idea. [/quote]

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