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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So much of the male complaining about this issue boils down to: "why can't a woman be more like a man?"

Women are not men. The average woman's sex drive is less than a man's, and the average woman is aroused by different mechanisms than a man is. (E.g., men tend to be much more visual.)

If you want to have sex with someone who is more like you, you are free to find another man and do so. If you want to have sex with a woman, I guess you will have to accept that women might be different from you. That doesn't mean that woman can't work harder to "own her shit." But it does mean that she can own every inch of her shit and [i] she still might not want sex as much as you do and still might not "desire" you in the way that you want.[/i][/quote]

Actually no. The male complaint is that women's sex drive and changes drastically after marriage and kids.
If she had been upfront about facebook/DCUM/netflix being a higher priority than sex while dating, then shame on me for marrying such a person.
But I feel justified in complaining about this post-facto and unilateral priority shift.[/quote]

Again, this reflects is a fundamental misunderstanding of the biology of female sexuality. And again, if you want to have sex with someone who thinks about and wants sex no matter what other shit is going on in one's life and no matter how old/postpartum/perimenopausal/menopausal one is, you should find another man.[/quote]

I disagree with this. You mean, find a woman who thinks like you do about sex. I'm a perimenopausal woman with two teenagers who works full time and does more than half of the domestic work, and yet my sex drive is just fine.  Always has been, except when our children were infants, and even then, we managed to have sex once a week.[/quote]

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