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I put a lot of effort into having regular sex with my husband. And I do this because he puts effort into showing me affection and being an active partner and making sure I am not overwhelmed.  [/quote]

I want my wife to show me affection, be an active partner, and make sure I'm not overwhelmed because I'm doing the same for her. I want her to have sex with me because she thinks I'm sexy and wants to have sex with me - the same as I do for her. I don't particularly want her to make an effort to find me attractive. [/quote]

I am a woman, and I get what you are talking about here.  Occasionally, I will be getting out of the shower or wear a low-cut top, and my husband will want to have sex.  It doesn't matter what else is going on.  I might feel like I want to have sex because I am not overwhelmed, and the person I most want to have sex with is my husband.  But I have never ever just thought a man was sexy and wanted to have sex with him.  It doesn't matter if Brad Pitt showed up in my living room.  If he was standing in the middle of 5 loads of unfolded laundry, I would not be thinking about sex.

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But that's because you don't have spontaneous desire and/or you're low drive. Don't you ever self pleasure?[/quote]

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