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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please - leave them all alone. Husband included - no little checking in texts of Facebook posts/messages.
Just concentrate on your own life. Let them have theirs. You have no place in it.

Relationship? ! Consider counseling.[/quote]

Y'all are nuts. OP has said like five times she has no intention of contacting them or starting a relationship. She is debating whether its appropriate to sign up for a meal delivery or participate in fundraising!

It's not totally abnormal to have a weird rush of feelings when something happens to an old flame. It would be weird to turn into a stalker and show up in the NICU but OP isn't doing that! Jeez, she's just getting her feelings out and wondering if she can extend even a small gesture of solidarity (NOT through contact!). [/quote]

Thanks for standing up for me. I agree with you but I don't even know That I said or insisted that I need to do even a small gesture. Our group of friends does seem to assume I'll participate, but I can set boundaries. I guess this situation feels odd because it's the type of weird coincidence where I would help out someone in this situation if it was a complete stranger, but somehow we got to a place where we are worse off than complete strangers. It makes me very sad that I could have that existence with any other person on the planet.*

*Although some of the meanness and stupidity on these boards is challenging the positive view of people I try to maintain.[/quote]
NP who doesn't understand why everyone is jumping all over you OP. Don't let them get in your head.[/quote]

Because we sense a faux level of concern for a preemie when really it is all about the OP. She should leave them alone. [/quote]

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