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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]20, and yes my DH cares. He made it very clear when we were dating that he would not be attracted to me if I was fat. [/quote]

Boy, sounds like a happy marriage.  :roll: [/quote]

[b]What is so wrong about upfront honesty?[/b]
My wife has gained 50 pounds.
Guess what, I am NOT attracted to her now !

(yes, I am still fit like a college athlete)[/quote]

Because life is long and body shapes are not guaranteed.  If you can't love your partner, and find a way to be attracted, when they are up 50 lbs, you are not meant for marriage.[/quote]

Not PP, but where's the cut-off...100 pounds overweight, 200 pounds overweight?  I don't think it is reasonable to say marriage means being physically attracted to your spouse forever and ever, no matter what happens.  Instead, I think it is about loving your spouse no matter what and basing intimacy on that love and shared history when the attraction isn't there.

FWIW, I'm a woman.[/quote]

The fact that you're looking for a cutoff is weird. What's the cutoff for you sticking around, lung cancer? But after a mastectomy you're out? Or if he has a limb amputated see ya later?

Clearly someone who is 200 pounds overweight has a serious health problem and needs to see a doctor but to act like that would happen and the other person would have a right to just walk away? It's the only thing in this category its very strange. No one would say that a woman who had a double mastectomy deserves to be walked away from because her body didn't keep it's end of the bargain.

And honestly once you hit 60...I mean how physically attractive is a 65 year old woman expected to be?[/quote]

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