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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I both care a lot about our careers and have both been told we have potential to rise to the top.  We are both ambitious.  In the last few years, he has let me take a number of opportunities that have really allowed me to move up quickly at his expense.  The problem with these things is that the more exposure you get (assuming you do well) the more brilliant opportunities come your way.  I am now at the stage where I have been offered a career changing next step but it would require my husband to make yet more sacrifice.  OP I hear what you are saying: i want this opportunity so badly and I know that nothing like this will ever come my way again.  At the same time, the only reason it has is because of the sacrifice he has already made.  I don't want to say no - and if I am honest, I have been privileged not to have to over the last few years and I've got used to it.  But in a marriage, you can't always put yourself first.  OP it sounds like your DH has already sacrificed so much for you.  At the very least, you need to seriously look into options in Dallas.  Anything else would be unbearably selfish.[/quote]

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