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[quote=Anonymous]OP, how old are you and how old is your boyfriend? Do you have any reason to anticipate fertility problems? I have a friend who is going through IVF and is also a step-parent, and it's been sooooo hard for her. So hard to see her husband being a father when she doesn't have a biological child of her own. So hard to delay IVF because they can't afford it due to his child support. So hard to not have 100% of her husband's time and attention. Does your boyfriend actually want another baby, or is he agreeing to it because you want it? I ask because I've seen this situation go seriously awry when there are fertility problems. If the man doesn't actually want the baby badly enough to do IVF, things can get really really unhappy. And then of course, what about twins?[/quote]
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