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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Omg it's getting out of hand! I have a chronic condition and I get very tired. I work and after my shifts I am usually exhausted. I come home and sleep for 2 hrs or so before getting up to do chores, cook and watch tv/chill with him. He is constantly waking me up. If it's in the morning or I'm napping he will just stand next to the bed and call my name until I wake up. Sometimes I wake up to him shaking me awake to ask a question or tell me something.

I have asked him to stop. He replied that he doesn't wake me up. And also I wake him up sometimes. Ugh. Fwi, I wake him up for important things like if his alarm clock is chiming and he doesn't hear it not to tell him that I'm leaving the house to walk the dog. It's like when normal people have the thought "oh she's asleep" he doesn't and he just barged to wake me up. Advice?

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NP here.  When you come home from shift work, go to the guest room or any room that had a door and lock and lock the door.  Tell him when you are in the guest room with the door locked, that he can text you anything he needs and he should not come in.  Period.  There is no way for him to deny that he woke you up if he is coming into a locked room.  If you have a guest room, you rest/sleep there so that if he has some lame excuse that he needs to be in the bedroom, he can still go into his own bedroom but he should have no valid reason to need to go into the guest room while you are resting.

As for the morning, try getting a nightshade eye cover.  Tell him that if you are wearing this, that he should stay away from the bed.  You will take it off when you wake up.  He will know that until you take it off, the house needs to be burning down before he wakes you.  You can also train him; each time he wakes you up, make sure that either an hour after he goes to bed or an hour before he needs to get up that you wake him up to tell him how much you love him and how happy you are to be getting married.[/quote]

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