Reply to Why do men pick ditzy women sometimes?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Why do men pick ditzy women sometimes?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I once had similar feelings about a relative as OP, but the person who got the "catch" was actually an extremely nasty, mean-spirited person who hid it very well behind a happy, ditzy persona and being very pretty.  I was amazed at how her boyfriend just ignored her meanness, shallowness, diva tendencies, lack of ambition, etc., just because he was attracted to her.  Meanwhile, I know women who are genuinely very kind and accomplished, but less "fun n' flirty," who can't find a man to save their life.  That's how men are.  They want that girl who is pretty, flirty, and confident, and they will ignore even the worst deficits.  So I get where you're coming from, but if your friend is a kind person, there are a few men out there who value that, and maybe that is what her boyfriend likes best.[/quote]

"Kind and accomplished" means fat, doesn't it? If that's the issue, address it.[/quote]

Nope, if I meant fat I would have said fat.  The only friend I have who is "fat" got married first.  I meant kind and accomplished, as in someone with a good career who is a good person, and is normal/thin, but doesn't act "fun and flirty."[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics