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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you save any of his texts? You could take a screen shot and send to the wife. 
You'd be surprised how much that happens.[/quote]

I saved everything, but I have no desire to contact her out of the blue. Should she ever contact me for the truth or what I have to say I would happily share them with her. I was always surprised she never contacted me to ask me questions or question what her husband told her. It's alarming how a cheater gets caught and the wife just assumes what he has to say his 100% truth. [/quote]

My husband cheated on me with his coworker.  I know who she is and could contact her if I wanted.  But I am not going to do that.  Not because I believe my husband 100%, because that would be naïve to say the least.  But because I wouldn't be able to trust her either and, frankly, I never want to see her or hear her name again.  I read many of their emails to each other and my husband cannot claim he was an innocent victim and I have a good idea of what he was saying about me (not good things).  I don't want to have her in my head at all.  I'm not sure if I will stay married (I learned about the affair about four months ago).  The thing I do struggle with is whether to tell her husband.  He already accused her of the affair and she denied it (I know this because he threatened my husband), so he definitely is suspicious.  But I am dealing with a lot right now and don't know if I gave it in me to open that can of worms.[/quote]

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