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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's changed that you aren't attracted to him anymore?[/quote]

I guess when we were single and in our early to mid thirties I was down for whatever and not busy cooking cleaning and taking care of DD. Back then DH was my focus but now I'm all consumed with 100% of the household, yard, maintenance, and childcare duties except one preschool drop off a week. I don't even think about sex. I'm utterly exhausted. We have no family in the area either.[/quote]

But you are actively repulsed by him. That's different than just being tired. Are you resentful about something with him?[/quote]

Oh that's interesting. I never thought of the repulsion having nothing to do with being tired. I think I'm resentful about his nasty game skills, like how he's socially awkward and I'm never safe from his unwanted advances at inappropriate times and involving forcefulness. If he was never grabbing and pulling and force kissing me I don't know maybe he wouldn't repulse me.[/quote]

Disgusting. I can't blame you, that would be a total turn off. Try and explain it and you're not interested unless it's both of you and when you're both having your "downtime".  [/quote]

That's not 'disgusting'- geez, too many people are frigid once they marry? [/quote]

Ha, same way guys stop opening the door, helping out, stuff like that.[/quote]

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