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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait. Hold the phone. OP, you have had sex one (1) time in two (2) years? Plus one BJ and two HJs? 
You say you aren't looking for full-on sex? You only try to kiss and cuddle?
Meanwhile, you are still meeting her needs, you are not cheating, and you are staying together?

I have to believe this is a troll post. No man could be this hopelessly passive for so long.
But in case you are for real, you need to go immediately to the nearest library and read these books, cover to cover, twice:
  No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover
  The Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay

No offense OP, but I think the problem is actually you.[/quote]

OP, this is harsh but good advice.  I haven't read these books, but you need to stop tolerating this as acceptable.   There are many ways to convey this, everything from being less available to cheating, but you can't let your wife possibly believe the status quo can remain.  As the cheating wife said in a comment just above here, what turned her on was, in part, her AP being less available.  Don't be so available.[/quote]

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