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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm only low drive for spouse. Was not low drive for ap.[/quote]

Curious why?  Is AP just more exciting or is spouse a dud/makes you unhappy?  Just wondering what makes you high for AP but low for spouse?  [/quote]

Others have touched on this in other posts. I had some emotional issues. Some unresolved anger toward Dh (working through that, though) and frustration and his neglect and lack of appreciation.  While we were sexually good at the start we were never great. And yeah, he's gained some weight, but I could have predicted that. But our sex life was always on the flat side. And probably being together for 20 years ads in a huge element of boredom.

With AP it was never flat. We had great chemistry.  Maybe AP was less available, and that made me want him more. Physically, it felt as though our bodies were made for each other And  we weren't together long enough for me to find things about him that annoyed me. But we were only together for 7 months.[/quote]

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