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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Interesting. Seems like a lot of high conflict on this board. [/quote]

Disagree. Mismatched libidos where people discreetly cheat is not high conflict. An environment of physical abuse or shouting matches would be high conflict.[/quote]

Abuse in another form. Cheating is abuse.[/quote]

It actually isn't but it also isn't something the kids see unlike physical abuse. Kids who grow up in a home where dad discreetly cheats on business trips are not the same as kids who grow up in a house where dad beats the shit out of mom. [/quote]

I would also like to add emotional and verbal abuse to this.....so many people think that as long as he is not beating you daily, then its okay. Abuse comes in a lot of forms and it can be very destructive even w/ out it being physical. [/quote]

With any kind of abuser, if you divorce your kids could be alone with the abuser half the time. So their situation could become worse.[/quote]

That is some backwards logic.....7 days of completely fucked up is a lot worse than maybe 2 days of fucked up and that is assuming that the court will even give the abuser visitation. I hope your not staying in an abusive marriage based on this thought process, if you are, please get some therapy. 
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