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[quote=Anonymous]I would sit down and work out plans on how both of you tackle the debts, then see if it's something you can live with. Be firm for things you not approved off. 5 years plan. It's OK for him to spend money to his family now, but once you are married, make sure at what threshold of money mooching is comfortable for you. Max your retirement as the money is totally yours. Do not use your savings for his family. Going forward, just use your salary to plan your budget together, see if it works to live together, get married, have kids etc. Love is great but bad financial planning is not. For what it worth, love yourself first. [/quote]
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