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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because she is kind, smart, funny, works hard, has very similar values, is the only person I felt totally comfortable with emotionally, gets that I love what I love and generally supports me in doing it-even video games :), has me do the "man" things around the house but will always help if I need it, is hot...

Since sex dried up all of these things have become really muted, so not entirely sure.  I do love her but without the sex the love is just kind of there, not something that I really get a lot out of.  Women make the mistake of thinking that sex is about us getting off, but its 100% more than that, it is how we connect to our marriage. I know women don't get it but it just is the truth.  Since the sex dried up I kind of see my wife completely differently, not really angry at her or anything but just differently.  Women reading this take note, its not that we want to use you as a masturbation aid, its just without sex we don't really see you like our wife, just a person we spend a lot of time with......[/quote]

Exactly the way I feel about DH. Sexless marriage. Dunno what he is thinking, but I have been building up my divorce war chest for years. His ass is done in the very near future.

FWBs, here I come! :P :P  :P [/quote]

Had a good friend who was married almost 14 years to a great guy.  She confided they rarely had sex, but everything else seemed to be good except some other problems with the inlaws.  He made over 150k, and she didn't have to work. Ended up seeing a old bf from college and before you know it she was traveling to visit her family and really see him.  It was shocking, lost sight of how good her life was.

Long story, but she ended up leaving her great husband for a dick.  Within 10 mo that got old and it was another set of problems with the dick, and as the saying goes can't live on sex.  She called me crying that she made a mistake, so I told her to try to get back with her husband.  Very sad situation, he was done with her because he found out about the bf.  After that it was financial problems.

I would weigh everything very carefully, every situation is different.[/quote]

She was an idiot not to stay with her husband and just sleep with the dick.[/quote]

Started out that way, but cheaters usually always get caught. No she was a IDIOT to cheat to begin with and like most cheaters....KARMA.[/quote]

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