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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can someone explain why you can't just quietly donate the gifts to a women's shelter, hospital, etc?

It's been asked 3 times and no one can answer why this is not good enough and takes care of the "problem"[/quote]
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Ok. Let's say we do that.

Two weeks later, your DC comes over for a play date and says, "Hey, let's play with the XYZ I got you for your birthday!"  My DC then says, "Sorry, but we didn't open the presents. We just donated them all to ABC."

Or maybe the topic of XYZ somehow comes up at recess or during Show and Tell or Buzz News or whatever because your DC indeed picked out the coolest and best toy for my DC's birthday.   And then my DC somehow mentions that actually it was donated, unopened, to ABC.

How would your DC feel about that?

How would YOU feel about that when your kid comes home and tells you all about it?

Would you graciously explain to your DC that what we did with his or her gift was a-ok because the recipient can do as they please with the gift your DC so thoughtfully picked out and purchased with your hard-earned money?

Or would you come right on over here to DCUM to rage how obnoxious and inconsiderate we were for not telling everyone we would just be donating the gifts?

Or would you instead just "vent" about it to the parents of other party-attendees, and discuss how greedy and self-serving we were for "claiming credit" for the donated gifts that you all actually purchased?

Seriously, PP. How exactly would this go?

Are you sure you wouldn't have preferred just to buy a box of Cheerios for a hungry family and call it a day?[/quote]

I'm amazed that you have thought this through in such detail but can't understand why making a food drive out of a birthday party is a bad idea.

How do you think the next child that has a birthday will feel when they are looking forward to gifts, don't have a lot of stuff, and are now uncomfortable with a typical gift party because you have made a statement out of your birthday party? [/quote]

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