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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ill be the one to point out that it could be because the other mom thinks OP's older sons look creepy, she's heard bad things about the husband, thinks OP serves junk food she won't let her daughter eat, or was alarmed that OP's bathrooms looked dirty.

All of which are offensive and judgey and no, I would not go along with that or be comfortable in a friendship where the mom was disapproving of my family or our choices.

I get all of these "nice" relies, which are certainly possible, but it's equally possible this other mom is snooty and judgey and OP shouldn't feel bad able being uncomfortable that her home is not good enough for this woman.[/quote]

It is possible, but why let that get in the way of her daughters friendship.  Unless the OP is afraid somethings inappropriate is going on, do not end the girls friendship simply because it makes you uncomfortable that things are uneven.  As our kids grow up, we have to accept that we will know thier friends parents less and less.  [/quote]

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