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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Consider this, OP. My parents have never stayed in our home when visiting, even when we lived in a large house with a guest room. They will come to visit and stay at a hotel, and they don't even come and hang out at our home but insist we all meet out for dinner or some other outing. We have a nice home, we're not slobs or unclean. They just are like that. It's the opposite problem from yours, but it's hurtful. At least your in laws seem interested in spending casual time with your family. It may be annoying, but it's also nice.[/quote]

Except that it's not. It's not "nice." It's not nice to ignore the wishes and concerns of your put-upon hosts, who TRULY do not have enough room to accommodate you. It's not nice to force yourself on a family who is cramped and uncomfortable and thrown off their routine because of your selfish, entitled presence. Especially after they OFFER TO PAY FOR A NEARBY HOTEL.

It's not nice for OP in OP's circumstances, which have ZERO to do with you and your circumstances. So just stop.[/quote]

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