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Reply to "Harmless, but annoying "stalking"? At what point should I take action?"
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[quote=Anonymous]A lot of people recommend "The Gift of Fear" on threads like this, and are regularly mocked for doing so - presumably from people who have been lucky enough to not have stalkers. But the fact is that it is an excellent book and a very clear window into the mindset of this kind of guy. People who recommend it aren't doing so because they love to piggyback on someone else's drama; it's because they've suffered at the hands of a creep and found that book to be illuminating, helpful, and above all, right. I recommend it, OP. It explains very clearly what motivates this guy, what delusions he's carrying around, and how these things can escalate so quickly and horribly from crush -> fixation -> stalking -> terrorizing as a form of revenge and control. This is not your fault. It was terrible luck. [/quote]
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