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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

Wow...thank you so much to everyone.   There is a lot to read.

1.  I am actually a little stunned that everyone feels it is so much of a threat.   I was wondering if I was taking this too seriously.  He DOES live pretty far away (about 1000 miles) so I've felt fairly confident I would not have to come in contact with him in person, except at the race last month.   The fact that all of you are taking this more seriously makes me wonder if Im in denial and should take it more seriously.

2.  Some posters have said this sounds familiar, but I did not post about a stalker before.

3.  Someone mentioned that I should pretend I have a horrible disease...that would not work with this guy.   Several times in his attempts to contact me he has said something along the lines of "Please let me know that you are ok."  I think if I gave any impression that I was not "ok" he'd be concerned and the attempts to contact would increase even more.

These were hard responses to read;  I didn't think this was as grave a concern as you all think it is, which scares me.   Thank you for taking the time to show me that this IS a bigger problem than I realized.[/quote]

I thought you said 100 miles.  Not that it changes my response in any way.[/quote]

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