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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lots of very good advice given already, but I have a question for OP -- please define the flirting for us, the content and duration.  Because people define flirting in a lot of ways, from just being nice and friendly to outright suggestive behavior.  Neither of these warrants this guy's insane behavior -- at all.  I'm not victim blaming.  But a guy who is full blown obsessed after some chit chat and a few generic running emails seems really unstable, probably in many ways.

I really, really hope you will tell your husband -- no matter the extent of the flirting.

The mention of bookmarking your kids' school is really, really creepy.  This is someone trying to find out every possible thing about you.  Lots of people do harmless googling -- I'm totally guilty of it -- but outright mentioning of it to you?  That's well outside normal nosiness.  I agree that he was putting you on notice.

You should be concerned, OP.  [/quote]

I think you should be able to judge the insanity of the stalker by the level of engagement you had with him previously.  If it was minor flirting then I would be more worried.  If sex was involved I would be less concerned.  If you only talked to the man a few times and he's acting like this you should be very bet worried.

Also what's the deal regarding the school and the website?  Are you positive there isn't another side to the story or that he was joking?  Again - not victim blaming but I think the details are very important.  [/quote]

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