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[quote=Anonymous]Interested in what the responses would be if OP were a man in the hospital for a scary but maybe not totally life threatening event! My guess is that you harpy bitches would be all over the wife for ignoring offers to help so she could spend more time advocating for her DH in the hospital and otherwise keeping him company!

OP- I grew up in a family where both parents had health scares. Every time they would find a way to use their network to watch us 3 kids so they could spend as much time as possible looking out for each other. We didn't feel like a second priority or whatever bullshit these hags are spewing at you because you're a stepmom. You *were* abandoned and you have every right to be mad because you couldn't count on him. Talk with DH. Let him know he put you at risk for substandard care (a reality in most hospitals for unaccompanied patients these days IMHO) and it bugged you how he put his head in the sand and left you to hold the bag when you should have been it together. Tell him it also got you thinking about what should happen if God forbid something happened to him, and that given your new responsibilities he shouldn't expect more than cursory visits. [/quote]

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