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The location services on cell is very useful to see where they have been.[/quote]

Do you regularly track your SO?[/quote]

Tracking won't always work. I never lied about my whereabouts. If I went somewhere, I told my DH, included something plausible about why I was there (e.g. picking up lunch and some new towels at whatever store ...) 
Plus, AP & I  had sex at my house. So. I was at home. [/quote]

Did you have sex with AP in the marital bed? :evil: [/quote]

Yes, we did. [/quote] 
I should add, it didn't start off in our bed, but after a while it just seemed like the logical move. AP was much more nervous about doing it in our bed than I was, but really, the bed is one of the best places to have sex. Comfortable, big, allows for more positions.

I realize some (many? most?) people would think it was 10x worse bringing an AP to   the marital bed, but it didn't seem like a big deal at the time. I'd probably NEVER do it in his bed, I've never even been to his house. I can't even imagine doing it in somebody else's bed. But me, fucking my AP in MY bed? I loved it. But I think that harkens back to my anger issues with my DH, that I didn't care about his feelings.
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Agree. Anger not just that my H is happy for me to be the workhorse in our marriage, but that he doesn't satisfy me in bed either.[/quote]

Very creepy, almost psychopathic, the way that you deal with your anger.  If you're angry about something, why not just discuss it?  If it's not resolved or resolvable, then why not divorce and move on?  But, AP sex in the marital bed represents a kind of creepy, secretive revenge that is the uncontrolled output of anger that a person is too immature to deal with in a more responsible way.  I find the idea kind of scary.  If an AP could do that to his/her spouse, who knows what he/she will do when he/she is unhappy with me? [/quote]

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